Published in The Octopus and The Owl·PinnedMy Last First Kiss~ From the Octopus ~ — “The first kiss is the last to be forgotten.” ~ Michael Faudet I will never forget my last first kiss. Most of us remember our first kisses. Whether it was our very first or the first with our current partner, first kisses are always memorable. …Love8 min read
May 25Shameful Shamelessness~ From the Owl ~ — Note from the Octopus–I so wish I did have to say, but also today…a school in Texas. ~ Originally written May 16th, 2022 ~ I am tearfully, ragingly disgusted by what happened recently in Buffalo. And a California church the next day. And a Michigan school a few months back…Gun Violence3 min read
May 22A Choice~ From the Owl ~ — Note from the Octopus — Once again, my apologies for not posting much. Life takes such twists and turns at times, but we are still here. I started vet school last fall and to say that has been consuming my time is an understatement. …Choices2 min read
Jan 15, 2021White Privilege Temper Tantrum~ From the Owl ~ — Note from the Octopus — Sorry it has been so long since I have posted anything. My focus last year was on pushing legislation to fight systemic racism and mass incarceration. Hoping to post more here this year! ~ Originally written January 7th, 2021 ~ A destructive mob of Whites…White Privilege4 min read
Jun 25, 2020When Monuments Fall~ From the Owl ~ Disclosure: I am a sociologist by training and career, with a historic fascination and a few grad classes in anthropology. Translation: I’m a giant nerd when it comes to analyzing social behavior. Hence, I often take an unknowing outsider’s view in how I look at…Protests4 min read
Jun 20, 2020Silence No More (For George Floyd)~ From the Owl ~ — As many have noted, perhaps most authoritatively Ibram Kendi, it is no longer enough… nor has it ever really been enough… for Americans to not be racist, especially us White folks. …Protest2 min read
Jun 5, 2020Where the Elephant Sleeps~ From the Owl ~ — The Octopus did not find it funny to be metaphored as an elephant. She gave me a bunch of grief about it. But she knew it wasn’t about her appearance but rather about her enormous heart and protective soul. I jotted this one down after she touched me deeply just…Prison2 min read
Apr 6, 2020Black History~ Note from the Octopus: Yes, I’m slow getting this one up, but I didn’t want to leave it out. And yes, really, I have been slow getting anything up here lately. My efforts have been focused on the Humanization Project and I was lobbying at the Virginia General Assembly…Black History Month13 min read
Mar 3, 2020What are we so scared of?~ Bernie and Socialism ~ Note from the Octopus ~ Happy to put this up as Super Tuesday is tomorrow and so many of us here in Virginia and elsewhere are headed out to vote. …Politics7 min read
Oct 29, 2019Woke~ From the Owl ~ Ever since I was a kid, I have absolutely abhorred racism and sexism. Since before I had the academic lexicon or sociological knowledge to discuss it fully or explain it rationally, I have recognized and despised it viscerally. Odd, since I occupy the ultimate status…White Privilege3 min read